So, have you set a date yet?

A wedding proposal is probably the most exciting event in a young woman's life. Whether is it elaborate or simple, every girl will immediately contemplate who to call first. And as soon as that beautiful ring takes its place on her finger, the very first question people will ask is "Have you set a date?" And among all those decisions brides have to make, this decision is at the very top.

Picking a wedding date is very simple for some couples and more challenging for others. The thought process and reason behind wedding date selection is different for every couple. Here are some of the most frequent reasons we here at Ceresville Mansion:

1. The date has personal significance - Some couples choose to have their wedding date coincide with the anniversary of their first date, proposal or parent's wedding anniversary. This is a great reason to choose a date. Problems can come into play with the day of the week your anniversary falls on or with venue availability. All in all, though having your wedding date be same date as the anniversary of the first time you met your finance is romantic and celebrates your relationship.
2. The date is fun - In recent years, couples have been drawn to dates with repeating digits (July 7, 2007, August 8, 2008, etc.). How fun will it be to tell your kids that you were married on 10/10/10 and have it inscribed on your invitations and cake knife. Another bonus is that your fiance will easily recall your anniversary date if its the same three numbers. These dates are popular though, so act fast.
3. Your schedule is crazy - If you are in college and will be taking your finals the last few weeks of May, you probably don't want to have your wedding take place the weekend before. Or if your groom is in the military and currently deployed oversees, its best to pick a date that he will be in town for. Your schedule and availability should definitely be a factor when picking your wedding date.
4. Your venue has limited availability - If you have your heart set on getting married under Ceresville's pergola on a Saturday evening in 2009, you are at the mercy of our availability. (Though, we still have a few Saturday evenings available in 2009). A lot of times we see brides waiver on their "gotta have it" dates for dates we have available. This is important, if you fall in love with a venue, you will be more flexible with your preferred date.

As a wedding planner, I hear a lot brides say that they are not flexible with their dates and it is frustrating. Instead of being set on a specific date, choose a month or time of day that you prefer for your wedding. Are you willing to let a quality venue slip through your fingers because your Grandmother's birthday is not available? Be flexible, any date you choose will forever be important to you and your family.

So, have you set a date yet? Call us! We have the perfect wedding date for you!